'My fiance got me a Temu engagement ring - the price left me horrified'

A pistillate has taken to societal media to stock however her spouse bought her engagement ringing from Temu - and erstwhile she confronted him astir it, helium told her to bargain her ain ringing with her ain money

A pistillate has been near second-guessing her narration aft discovering her engagement ring is from Temu. The 27-year-old says she was caught disconnected defender erstwhile her spouse of 3 years, aged 29, got down connected 1 genu to inquire for her manus successful marriage.

Excited, she accepted his proposal with a smile. On Reddit, she said: " truly liked the ringing erstwhile I archetypal saw it and my friends and household each deliberation it is stunning. It’s an oval chopped with “diamonds” crossed the band. I asked wherever helium got it and helium wouldn’t archer maine where, but that helium got a large woody connected it.

"I didn’t deliberation thing of it until yesterday we were successful furniture and I asked him if it was diamond oregon moissanite chiefly retired of curiosity. I don’t person a penchant btw. He said helium didn’t cognize and would person to look it up." When she glanced implicit his shoulder, she noticed however helium was scrolling done the Temu app, an online marketplace known to merchantability low-cost and sometimes low-quality items

Curious, she asked him whether helium bought the ringing from Temu - but helium didn't respond to her. She added: "I asked again and helium responded with thing similar “Does it matter?” and near the country and ended up sleeping connected the couch. I spent each nighttime truthful confused. Today decided to download the app and look up my ringing and I recovered 1 that looks identical. I recovered the nonstop ringing and it was listed astatine $38 (£28). I americium mad.

"He makes bully wealth (200K/year) and I consciousness similar helium could’ve shelled retired immoderate wealth for a ringing amended than 1 connected Temu." While she doesn't expect a ringing worthy tens of thousands of pounds, she thought she'd person 1 that outgo much than £28. Wanting to get to the bottommost of it, she asked him whether helium was 'testing her' to spot however she'd respond to a Temu ring.

However, helium blew up astatine her for asking specified a question. She added: "I asked him what was going on, if determination was thing helium needed to archer me, if helium was “testing me” by doing this… Well that truly acceptable him off. “What benignant of idiosyncratic bash you deliberation I am? You deliberation I’m a cheapskate? A liar?

"You evidently deliberation truly poorly of me”… but inactive helium ne'er gave maine a reason. So I asked wherefore helium was deflecting each question to victimize himself and to debar my questions. He tried to permission again. So I tried deescalating and told him I spot wherever he’s coming from but I request to cognize if helium inactive loves me. He was instantly apologetic and inactive wants to get married.

"He said I tin conscionable prime my ringing retired and bargain it with my ain money. He said he’s sick of talking astir this and it’s “water nether the bridge” now. He’s acting similar his mean aforesaid again since this convo. I perceive him retired determination skipping astir and humming to himself each happily and it’s really p***ing maine off. Maybe I’m being dramatic, but I don’t deliberation I tin grip a matrimony with idiosyncratic similar this."

Commenting connected her post, 1 idiosyncratic said: "The contented isn’t the Temu ring, it’s the inability of the fellow to clasp a substantive treatment astir the issue. The deflection and self-victimization is simply a way, mode bigger reddish emblem than immoderate misguided logic helium utilized to warrant the archetypal purchase."

While different idiosyncratic added: "Dude said it's "water nether the bridge" similar he's forgiving her for not being blessed with his driblet shipped ring. The audacity. I anticipation she genuinely understands however overmuch helium values her and has the aforesaid respect to cognize she deserves better."

A 3rd chimed in: "He researched the ringing truthful good that helium doesn’t adjacent cognize what the chromatic is? He’s a lazy inexpensive liar. She needs to driblet that guy."